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OneofthemostervasiveanddestructivementaltendenciesIveseenisthatoffocusingonwhatwewantinsteadofwhatwehave。Itdoesntseemtomakeanydifferencehowmuchwehave；wejustkeeexandingourlistofdesires，whichguarantees1wewillremaindissatisfied。Themind-setthatsays
"Illbehaywhenthisdesireisfulfilled
"isthesamemind-setthatwillreeatitselfoncethatdesireismet。
Wewantthisorthat。Ifwedontgetwhatwewant，wekeethinkingaboutallthatwedonthaveandweremaindissatisfied。Ifwedogetwhatwewant，wesimlyrecreatethesamethinkinginournewcircumstances2。So，desitegettingwhatwewant，westillremainunhay。Hainesscantbefoundwhenweareyearningfornewdesires。
Luckily，thereisawaytobehay。Itinvolveschangingtheemhasis3ofourthinkingfromwhatwewanttowhatwehave。Ratherthanwishingyoursousewasdifferent，trythinkingaboutherwonderfulqualities。Insteadofcomlaining4aboutyoursalary，begratefulthatyouhaveajob。RatherthanwishingyouwereabletotakeavacationtoHawaii，thinkofhowmuchfunyouhavehadclosetohome。Thelistof
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